Accept compliments when given to you truthfully. Avoid flatterers; they are dangerous to your ego. Let it be known that you do not like flattery.
Develop a habit of listening attentively. Many things are lost because of lack of paying attention. Be a good listener whether it is in a meeting or with a colleague. It will come in good stead.
Avoid bad mouthing anyone - even they deserve it. A better policy is to ignore it or confront it, and then leave it at that. Do not encourage rudeness of any sort to yourself or others.
When you find that you are upset, smile. Also, smile when you are happy. Smiling is not only infectious, it is great mood enhancer.
Do not be known as a lover of conflict and confrontations. Answer aggressiveness with calmness and poise (it takes practice and a lot of patience).
Be the smiley of the office - NOT the clown. Cheerfulness is appreciated, foolhardiness is not.
Always try to be part of the solution, not problems. Avoid punching holes into the system's functioning.
Learn to recognize other people's strengths and complement them when they do something exceptional.
Do not be afraid or shy to ask for help. This is the easiest way to network, as well as delivering a great job.
Accept compliments with poise and genuine pleasure. The right response will generate more appreciation.
Do not despair when things go wrong. The bottom line should be, 'Always believe in yourself.'
Do not let it go to your head when you taste success. Remember, 'you are never as good as they say when you succeed; and you are never as hopeless as they say you are when you fail.'
Keep this is mind,'Rejection is a matter of opinion. It should never stop you.'
Learn to say 'NO' when you do not want to do something. This ability will keep you out of trouble.
Always be ready to lend a hand - whether it is with work or on a personal level.
