Hello [sceams at the top of his lungs] ''Somebody Help me!!!''

[Sir Benz]

Hi Everyone, New to this site so give me a little while to get into the hang of things.

Sometimes i wish growing up I had paid a little more attention to the voice in my head or been brave enough to pursue the real things that mattered to my heart.

How i wish I had spoken up when the chance presented itself, maybe today, I'd be doing the real things I love. Can you really tell or judge the true character of a person's heart? Can the naked eyes see the true qualities and gifts a person presents in situations not documented by what cooperate human resources say?

I sometimes dream of traveling to distant far lands, working for, creating new things, developing and enhancing the everyday lives of people less fortunate than myself, but rather what am I doing here, sitting behind a desk staring at the same four walls day in day out. Sometimes I wonder.

Dont you just hate it when you have so much ideas in your head, How you wish you could just click your fingers and magically do something or be somewhere, but in reality it isn't that simple? when it comes to putting things into action how easy can one say it is.

I am in a job that I have no complete interest in anymore. Everyday i wake up and think when will these people i work for and communicate with realize I am a fraud, a person not true himself. Would it be easier to say ''I quit'' than face the uncertainties of what lies tomorrow?

How easy is it, I ask you? to change completely one's job, one's career and just look the other way, How easy is it to pick up a new talent or a skill or to develop one's ability to think beyond one's imagination.

If i could do anything in the world, what would I do? But the problem i see everyday, is that chances do not show it self, neither do people have time to listen or care.

I need a new change of mind, I need a new job, Who out there is willing to give me a chance, who out there is willing to talk to me and put me on the right path.

In this life I have come to realize is that all it takes is one chance. One opportunity.

I rest....till another time....

Sir Benz.

[sarahpinton]

You will have to realize that your life is not your job.

No job you can have will ever make you feel like you want to be. It's just an excuse for that.

I don't mean to imply anything, but did you just break up with someone?

[Sir Benz]

hahaha No Its not that. I see a job as something you WANT to do not something you MUST do. There needs to be a balance between manual labour (waking up everyday at the same hour doing the same thing day in day out) and something you take delight in. You know, You wake up excited, full of energy, jump out of bed, get dressed and head of to work feeling confident in yourself because you love the work you do. Maybe i'm still trying 2 find my ideal job, I know its out there, because i've created it in my head, now where do i start looking for it, and in this part of the world, its not as easy as it sounds.

[ahos77]

Hi Sir Benz,

You say:
I need a new change of mind, I need a new job, Who out there is willing to give me a chance, who out there is willing to talk to me and put me on the right path.

In this life I have come to realize is that all it takes is one chance. One opportunity.

Most of the time, we need to create our own opportunities. If you are unhappy in your job, don't wait for someone to pick you out of the crowd and hand you the perfect job on a platter. Think about what you'd like to do, and go do it--even if it starts out as volunteer work. You want to do something manual, and maybe build something with your hands, then volunteer for Habitat for Humanity or volunteer with a group that builds playgrounds for schools in low income neighborhoods. Take part in a beach/park clean up, or help maintain or restore a local hiking trail. If you have a passion for history or music or art that isn't being utilized in your current job, then go volunteer to give presentations at a local museum or teach classes for low-income students that have had their arts funding cut.

If you don't know what exactly your perfect job would be, that's okay. Just start out doing things that sound interesting to you, and you'll find your path. You may even end up finding a job through a contact you make through volunteering.

[Sir Benz]

Thanks for the words of encouragement. You are so right. I have actually started a foundation called 'A family in need foundation' out here in Africa. Its kind of small at the moment, but thats where my passion and my heart is. Helping families in need that require the extra support to maintain and develop a healthy family life.

Anyways thanks again Ahos77. much appreciated.