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[Jennifer]

I have married a man 20 years older than I am. He is originally from Arizona and would really like to retire there. I have a very 'hot' career in NYC as a lawyer I am still 40 years old, my husband is 60. I love him with all my heart, but to be bluntly honest I love my career more.

He has already chosen the retirement communities in Arizona. I am not even interested to know which one. He claims that NYC is senior un friendly, un safe and un healthy. Well he could be right, but I do not want to retire at 40.

This issue is getting to me as well, I have an ulcer problem due to stress and it is getting worse. There is not set date for him go to this retirement communities in Arizona.

We have been married for 20 years; I love my husband but he wants to go away!

My big career move is to co-own the lawyers office I work for, so you can understand how difficult this is from co-owing a lawyer firm to ending up living in a retirement communities in Arizona.